My wife loves reading sex stories.? i came to know the day i saw her mobile phone connected to internet and a sex story site was open. at that she was in the toilet so i didn't have much time...still i could know that the story was of swinging or group sex may be. i didn't want to ask her because i wanted to know more of the secrets of her mind and if any out side marriage activity though i am fine with it.... How can i know these things without her knowledge??? |
| Just ask her. Tell her you saw a sex story on her phone (in all likelihood she is using them to masturbate). Tell her you dont mind her doing that and she can masturbate anywhere in the house. You could tell her you find her reading them naughty and erotic and if she wants to discuss her fantasies which may have arisen from the stories and maybe explore them, thats cool too. Like, you could end up going to a swingers meet or going dogging or something! Maybe even roleplay where you pretend to be strangers. |
Is it true that Joffa had group sex with a bunch of Collingwood players after the 2002 grand final loss? Or was it 2003? I cant remember... Did anyone else hear about this story? |
| He wore his golden sparkly jacket too. lol. |
Is it rude to ask someone outloud (infront of a group of people) whether they had sex or not? i just started a course and didn't know the girls that well that i was sitting with. they started sharing different stories bout their sexual experiences. I didn't join in as i had no stories.
One girl asked me outloud (infront of the group) "have you had sex?"
i told the truth and said NO. I am 19
I was offended. Do you agree she was somewhat retarded to ask someone that outloud? |
| yes and i would have told her to pi** off ... by the way you should be very proud... if you are 19 and not had sex that is not a bad thing at all in fact it shows you are a responsible young lady :) |
What is the best sex fiction book for women? My girlfriend is looking for a erotic book or two for christmas. She is very adventurous with sex. She wants the following in the books in order of preference:
story line
female domination
strapon sex (women to man)
"lots and lots of sex"
"whips and chains"
sex toys (vibrators)
interracial sex (black man, white women)
threesomes and group sex
She likes anything which is fringe and a bit taboo. |
Well, I think online shopping can fit our need better for varied causes. Buying sex toys online not only save your time, but also save your money and energy.
Go to xmybox.com, and buy yourself a suitable sex toys LOL. |
What is the best sex fiction book for women? Advice Please? My girlfriend is looking for a erotic book or a few for christmas. She is very adventurous and sometimes a bit nuts with sex. She wants the following themes in the books:
story line
female domination
strapon sex (women to man)
"lots and lots of sex"
"whips and chains"
sex toys (vibrators)
interracial sex (black man, white women)
threesomes and group sex
transexual sex
She likes anything which is fringe and taboo. Best selling books preferably. |
Well, I think online shopping can fit our need better for varied causes. Buying sex toys online not only save your time, but also save your money and energy.
Go to xmybox.com, and buy yourself a suitable sex toys LOL. |
Should the other cronulla players come forward that were involved in the group sex 'scandal'? Im just doubtful that it will do any good. To me its all exaggerated and i dont believe they did anything wrong. Why would they come forward after seeing what Matty Johns has gone through. He told his side of the story and apologized and it seemed to do no good. These men had consensual sex with a woman who sounds like she is a lyar and an attention seeker. The sex lives of footy players is not anyones business but theirs & their partners. Group sex isnt a crime and Im sure a lot of people who are judging them have done it or atleast had a sexual experience they werent proud of. |
| Sure they should, but unfortunately their intelligence doesn't extend any further than their penis. |
Are married couples who are into swinging, group sex, happier than couples who are not into that? I'm no expert but I hear stories about people who are not happy in their marriage and then they try all these things and all of a sudden it saves their marriage. |
A non-swinger friend of ours once commented after observing our relationship as well as others at swingers parties she attended with us:
"Swinging is like the icing on the cake. But if the cake underneath doesn't have all the ingredients to make it solid, all the icing in the world won't keep it from crumbling."
It's very true. Swinging won't "fix" a failing marriage, all it will do is add one more thing for the couple to fight about.
However, it won't harm a good one either.
In a 2000 study done by Bellarmine University they said "62.6% of swingers found that swinging improved their marriages/relationships, 35.6% said their relationships stayed about the same, and only 1.7% said they became less happy. Even among those who said their marriages were 'Very Happy' prior to swinging nearly half (49.7%) said they became happier."
We had a good marriage before we started swinging, and had great sex together. Now all of it's even better. Why? Because taking petty jealousy over sex out of the equation really defined what it is that makes us a couple and why we are together instead of with someone else. It's not just great sex. Hell, we had that with ex-spouses and lovers. It's great friendship. It's great companionship. It's common goals in life. It's absolute trust in each other.
That said, swinging doesn't work for everyone. You have to be able to separate love and sex as two different things. Or at least sex with someone you love and sex with others. One is soul sex as well as being great fun, the other is just great fun.
They say that 40% of people list a threesome (which is technically swinging) as their #1 fantasy, however, only about 0.01% of the population are active swingers. So that there tells you that it's a long way from fantasy to reality. Some can do it, others can't. Nothing wrong with that. It's just different strokes for different folks.
For some great and objective information about swinging, check-out The Swingers Board at www.swingersboard.com . You'll find lots of discussions in the forums with wannabe swingers, newbies, and veterans alike. |